Attachment Styles

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Author: Tylyn Bushman

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The attachment styles theory is based on the idea that infants need to form bonds with a caregiver, that the connection is an innate human need. At its core, it is an emotional bond between an infant and their caregiver based on trust and an exchange of comfort, care and pleasure. If an infant’s caregiver is unresponsive to the infant’s needs or is abusive, the infant is unable to trust the caregiver and will be unable to have a healthy attachment style.  
Rudolph Schaffer and Peggy Emerson did a study that found multiple stages attachment style development. These stages are typical, but the timing and specific reactions are general and not exact. 

Mary Ainsworth conducted an experiment called the “strange situation study”. From this study, Ainsworth concluded that there are four attachment styles that a child can exhibit. 

Ainsworth’s study:

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There are four characteristics/aspects of attachment style that help determine the attachment style.  
  • Proximity maintenance –Child wants to be near people they are attached to. 
  • Safe haven –Child turns to caregivers for comfort and safety when exposed to new and/or distressing situations. 
  • Secure base –Child sees their caregiver as a base of security that they can explore around. 
  • Separation distress –Child feels and demonstrates anxiety when caregiver is absent.  
** It is important to note that anxiety and distress are normal reactions to separation. It is not normal, however, when a child is unable to recover from the separation and continues to be in distress and anxious even when the caregiver returns. ** 


Internal Work Models –IWM 
The internal working model of attachment refers to the development of mental representations, especially regarding self-worth and others’ perception. IWM develops early on in life, but is not studied in infants, and is the basis of attachment styles theory. Attachment style reflects an individual's IWM, how they view themselves based on their relationships.  
Components that make up IWM are: 


IWM influences many aspects of life, such as social cognition, mental health, relationships, and emotional regulation. IWMs tend to be stable but can change with new and unfamiliar situations. IWM develops in complexity with cognitive growth and social experiences. 


History of attachment theory  

British psychologist John Bowlby was interested in studying the reasons why children get anxious and distressed when they are separated from their caregivers. From his research, he came up with attachment styles, describing the theory as studying the "lasting psychological connectedness between human beings.”.  
Bowlby suggests that attachment is evolutionary, if a child is emotionally attached to their caregivers, they will be more likely to receive care that will help them survive. Behaviorists proposed that attachment is learned by children associating their caregivers with food, but Bowlby found that the relationship remained even without the involvement of food.  
Research has been done to find the long-lasting impact of attachment styles and has found that secure attachment may have positive effects on life such as altruism and positive self-esteem, while unhealthy attachment can be associated with behavioral and social disorders. 


How attachment theory applies to education

“Child attachment security is an important factor to consider when studying school readiness” (Cassidy, Jones, Shaver, 2013

Practice Questions

Which of the following is the best definition of attachment theory? Select all that apply. 

An explanation of how teachers and students “attach” to each other through emotional relationships. 

A theory stating that infants need to bond with their caregivers because of a psychological need. 

A theory of emotional bonds between an infant and their caregiver. 

A theory explaining a child’s natural tendency to make friends with peers that share similarities with them. 


Which attachment style is exhibited in the following situation? 
Johnny’s mom is visiting a neighbor with Johnny when she has to use the restroom. Leaving Johnny with the neighbor, Johnny’s mom leaves to go to the bathroom, and Johnny begins to cry hysterically and resist the neighbor’s comforting efforts. When Johnny’s mom returns, Johnny continues to cry and is inconsolable.

Secure attachment 

Avoidant-dismissive attachment 

Ambivalent attachment 

Disorganized attachment 


Which of the following best represents the indiscriminate stage of attachment? 

Molly is strongly biased towards her mother and does not like the company of anyone else. 

Ryan is comfortable with his grandma and older sister, as well as his mom and dad. 

Liam cries when he is hungry and takes food from anyone that gives it to him, even if he does not recognize them. 

Kiera doesn’t mind the babysitter but is generally happier when being taken care of by her mom. 

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